Men's Rights Activism

July 27, 2012

I think I was that guy.
With the standards for ‘rape’ as low as they are, it’s nearly impossible for a guy to get it right. With one girl, taking a single ‘no’ seriously would mean she would think he’s a wimp and lose all interest. For another, not coming to a full stop on a single ‘no’ would constitute rape.
I like your ‘yes’ scenario a lot. I’ve been in that one too. I’ve had girls dismiss me as a pussy because I didn’t pursue a sexual offer. I’ve also gone to bed with one I really didn’t want to because I felt obligated, or didn’t feel like being shamed.
Just to make it more f’d up, I had two girlfriends who liked to play rape. One liked to play she was the innocent schoolgirl, and I was an older man, and she would plead with me to stop as I pulled off her clothes and f’ed her. The other was much more hardcore, and wanted about 90% of a full-out violent rape. I had to use headlocks, arm twisting, choke holds, etc to force her to submit, while she fought back like a banshee. This was consensual of course - she told me that she wanted it - but it made me feel kind of sick. I didn’t go out with her long, because it felt too real to me.
So I’ve experience all this range of female responses, with only single-digits of sex partners. Good luck figuring this out to the guys out there dating now. They’re damned either way.

I think I was that guy.

With the standards for ‘rape’ as low as they are, it’s nearly impossible for a guy to get it right. With one girl, taking a single ‘no’ seriously would mean she would think he’s a wimp and lose all interest. For another, not coming to a full stop on a single ‘no’ would constitute rape.

I like your ‘yes’ scenario a lot. I’ve been in that one too. I’ve had girls dismiss me as a pussy because I didn’t pursue a sexual offer. I’ve also gone to bed with one I really didn’t want to because I felt obligated, or didn’t feel like being shamed.

Just to make it more f’d up, I had two girlfriends who liked to play rape. One liked to play she was the innocent schoolgirl, and I was an older man, and she would plead with me to stop as I pulled off her clothes and f’ed her. The other was much more hardcore, and wanted about 90% of a full-out violent rape. I had to use headlocks, arm twisting, choke holds, etc to force her to submit, while she fought back like a banshee. This was consensual of course - she told me that she wanted it - but it made me feel kind of sick. I didn’t go out with her long, because it felt too real to me.

So I’ve experience all this range of female responses, with only single-digits of sex partners. Good luck figuring this out to the guys out there dating now. They’re damned either way.

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